You’re Not Underqualified, You’re Underestimating Yourself: How Imposter Syndrome Sabotages Your Job Search
- Brandi Oldham
- Apr 24
- 4 min read
Let’s be honest—job searching can feel like one long identity crisis.
You sit down to write your resume, and suddenly every accomplishment you’ve worked hard for starts to feel… well, kind of flimsy. You question whether you’re qualified enough, experienced enough, or simply good enough to even hit submit. And when you finally do land an interview, your brain has the nerve to whisper things like, “They’re going to figure out I have no idea what I’m doing.”
If this sounds familiar, welcome. You’re not alone—and you’re not broken. You’re experiencing Imposter Syndrome, and it’s more common than you think.
What Is Imposter Syndrome, Really?
Imposter Syndrome is that sneaky voice in your head that tells you your success isn’t real—that you’ve somehow tricked people into thinking you’re more capable than you actually are. It convinces you that your wins were due to luck or timing, not talent or effort. And it makes you downplay your strengths, avoid risks, and question your worth.
Dr. Valerie Young, a leading expert on the topic, defines Imposter Syndrome as “the feeling of being inadequate at your job or that you’ll be ‘found out’ for not being good enough despite your skills and successes.”
Sound familiar?
According to research, around 70% of people will experience at least one episode of Imposter Syndrome in their lifetime. That includes folks like Sheryl Sandberg, Tom Hanks, Serena Williams, and even Maya Angelou. If they’ve felt it, it’s safe to say you’re in good company.
My Story (Because Yep—Been There)

Before founding Talent Career Coaching, I was deep in my own career spiral. I applied to over 250 jobs, second-guessed every decision, and was constantly searching for outside validation. I didn’t trust my own voice, my own experience, or even my own resume. It wasn’t until I slowed down and got clear on my values and strengths that things shifted. But I had to do the internal work first.
That’s why I created this FREE webinar—and this blog. Because no one should feel like they have to shrink themselves to succeed. Especially not during something as vulnerable and important as a job search.
So let’s talk about how Imposter Syndrome shows up, and more importantly, how you can move through it.
How Imposter Syndrome Sabotages Your Job Search (and What to Do About It)
Imposter Syndrome doesn’t just mess with your confidence. It messes with your strategy. Here’s how it sneaks into different phases of the job search—and how you can start shifting those patterns today.
The Application Phase
What Imposter Syndrome Says:“You’re not qualified enough. You’re missing one bullet point. Don’t even bother.”

What That Looks Like:
Only applying if you’re 100% qualified.
Writing generic resumes because you’re afraid to sound too confident.
Not applying at all because you applied once before and assume they still have your info.
Reframe This:
Aim for 70% fit—not perfection. Most job descriptions are wish lists.
Tailor your resume, but don’t tone down your wins. Use a friend’s lens: How would someone who believes in you write this?
Always assume the resume isn’t on file. Show up fresh.
The Cover Letter
What Imposter Syndrome Says:“They don’t care about your story. Keep it robotic and professional.”
What That Looks Like:
Not submitting a cover letter at all.
Writing one that’s dry, vague, or undersells your personality.
Avoiding honesty about your path or pivots.
Reframe This: Your story matters. A strong cover letter doesn’t just list facts, it builds connection. So if your current version bores you, rewrite it. Let your real voice lead.
The Interview
What Imposter Syndrome Says:“Don’t oversell. Don’t talk too much. Just play it safe.”

What That Looks Like:
Downplaying your accomplishments (“It wasn’t a big deal…”).
Not articulating the why behind your career moves.
Walking in with low energy because you’ve already convinced yourself you’re not getting the job.
Reframe This: The hiring manager already sees something in you—that’s why you’re there. Don’t talk yourself out of the job. Reflect their belief in you back to them. Own your learning moments, celebrate your growth, and speak to your potential.
The Offer
What Imposter Syndrome Says:“This is the best you’re going to get. Say yes before they change their mind.”
What That Looks Like:
Accepting any offer, even if it doesn’t meet your needs.
Avoiding salary negotiations out of fear you’ll seem ungrateful.
Ignoring your “must-haves” because you don’t want to rock the boat.
Reframe This: Every time you say yes to something that’s not right, you’re saying no to something that could be. Revisit your non-negotiables. If the offer doesn’t align, it’s okay to counter—or walk away. That doesn’t make you difficult. It makes you discerning.
3 Ways to Quiet Imposter Syndrome (So You Can Lead with Confidence)
Say It Out Loud
When you hear the thoughts—“I’m not qualified,” “It was just luck,” or “I don’t deserve this”—don’t let them go unchecked. Call them what they are: Imposter Syndrome. Name it, then move forward with intention.
Track Your Wins
We forget our brilliance when we’re in the thick of a search. Create a “wins folder”—in your inbox, on your phone, or on a corkboard like mine—and drop in every positive review, email, or milestone. It’s not bragging. It’s data.
Shift Your Inner Narrative
Instead of asking, “Am I good enough for this job?” try asking, “Is this job good enough for me?” That tiny reframe changes everything.
Final Thoughts: You Don’t Need to Wait to Be Perfect
If you take nothing else from this blog, let it be this:
You are not a fraud. You are in progress. And that’s more than enough.
Whether you’re rewriting your resume, prepping for an interview, or standing at the edge of a bold career pivot—remember: your worth isn’t up for debate. Your story is valid. Your voice matters. And you don’t have to go it alone.
If you’re feeling stuck, I’d love to help. I’ve walked this path (in uncomfortable shoes, no less), and I know how powerful it can be to have someone in your corner.
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